Body Image, Breast Obsession in our homes
The female breast is constantly exposed to physical changes during the life of an adult. This is perfectly normal has a purpose, any physical change in the female breast adult attends at a certain stage of life.
The psychological importance attributed these changes seems to exceed the physical changes themselves. Many women treat their breasts as a foreign body. The company is happy to play with their frustrations. Breasts "should" be morecute and young and balanced – are among the multitude of messages we receive.
This phenomenon is not new. What is new is the amount of time, effort, money and thought of spending so many women "deal" with her breasts. For example, women of all ages are jointly and intimacy issues, does not work in his life to shape and size of their breasts …
* Is the concern about breast size in response to media bombardment of "improving the womb" industries?
* WhyMany women today do not have a positive relationship with their breasts?
* That a mother say / do when their teenage daughter to ask for breast implants?
* Given that women are trained to self-breast examination to make each month, is not the time for women, an emotional self-assessment of their attitude towards their experience within?
Means of expression: In the picture there is a certain logic to manipulate our need or change the shape of the breast. The human body is constantlyattention to the needs as a means for the expression of cultural, tribal, or pedigree. There is a tendency for the peoples, tribes and other groups to demand that their members uniformity, equality, reflected in physical appearance. With the expression of a cultural fashion breasts and a statement is a new twist, even one hundred years ago to an ancient ritual. There are medical and psychological effects on our bodies with fashion trends or cultural Express projectMessages.
The new family of issue: The family members have an important role in how women react to your body and especially her breasts, in spite of himself. Some women in this culture to literally tap into a "man-trap. Given the ubiquity of this new edition, what should parents say (or do) when their teenage daughters asked for breast implants? Reliable statistics show that the number of young consumers of breast implants to double every year!
Since it wasIn Which the chest was a "status symbol" We are facing the second generation of mothers to show concern about the impact of breastfeeding on the shape, form and beauty of their breasts.
There is a need to discover and a new appreciation for every woman, the relationship with their breasts. Grow in our culture, are trapped explosive …
traps included a mood. It 'also the range of attitudes: a concern for the female breast obsessionthem.
How do we know if a person trapped stupid? Examples:
* If the other person in a conversation with you is always fixed his eyes on your chest instead of your eyes … Your partner is trapped fool!
* If a woman has criticized the size of her bosom, or compare their size, others' with pride or envy … And 'booby traps caught!
Tips for parents in collaboration with various strategies of other parents, body image of non-verbal communication styles.Namely, family and children 'yes' attitude of parents towards their own bodies, regardless of what parents express in words. Therefore, the daughters' buy-in "mothers" Love / Hate relationship with my own body.
Before your daughter asks for breast implants, the controls set for the family of the woman's body. Want to take voice notes are like a big breasted woman goes through? The women in the family hates her body? They put in front of their daughters?They are the men / fathers in the family "" female obsessed with large breasts? Children of fathers may "attitude towards the female body / updated saw meet to identify, comment and criticize the women around them.
by Nili Sachs, Ph.D.
Author: booby trapped, feels like normal in a world obsessed with breasts
Posted on September 5th, 2010
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